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								HEARTHS & FRIENDS ACROSS THE MILES 
								 
                                
									
									
									FROM OTTAWA 
									ONTARIO, CANADA -TO 
									NORTH CAROLINA, USA 
									
									
									Where is Lydia the Pit 
									Bull....  
                                
									
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										Remember "Lydia", the 
										scared girl saved by Eagle's Den Rescue 
										and adopted?Lydia 
										escaped her Harness & Her new parents 
										desperately need to find her.
 
 
											
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											My 
											name is Beth McDuffie. Jerry, my 
											husband and I
											have worked in animal rescue for as 
											long as I can remember!
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												From the start, 
												Jerry and I opted to rescue 
												those animals that other rescues 
												would or could not take. We shy 
												away from the cute little 
												puppies that rescues then to 
												fight over and frequently have 
												several seniors lounging in our 
												home. We also see our fair share 
												of Pit Bulls. The most common 
												Pit Bulls to grace our homes  
												are known as 
												Bait Dogs. They come to us 
												maimed and scarred and we do our 
												best to help them heal. 
										 
														
														When Lydia came to us 
														she won our hearts 
														immediately. She had 
														been horribly abused by 
														the family that was 
														supposed to love her. 
														She had been taken from 
														this family by animal 
														control because of 
														cruelty. Lydia was from 
														Chesterfield, SC, a 
														place where dog fighting 
														is as common as having 
														dinner every day. The 
														fact animal control 
														confiscated her speaks 
														volumes. And Lydia was 
														truly terrified. When 
														she came to us, she had 
														been in a rescue in SC 
														for a little over a 
														week. She was not coming 
														around and they needed 
														the space, so they 
														called us. Of course we 
														could not turn her away. 
											
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													From the start we knew Lydia 
													would be special. For one 
													thing, when she was 
													transported to us, it took 
													us 30 minutes to get her out 
													of the crate she had been 
													transported in. We finally 
													had to disassemble the crate 
													from around her for fear of 
													hurting this small to medium 
													sized Pit Bull. Her eyes 
													were wide with fear and she 
													would try to "disappear." It 
													is difficult to understand a 
													dog doing this until you see 
													it. The effect is not heart 
													breaking. It is heart 
													wrenching. When human hands 
													touched Lydia, she would use 
													the bathroom on herself 
													uncontrollably. We gradually 
													got her to at least move 
													while on a leash, but the 
													effects of that also broke 
													our hearts. 
													
													
													Lydia did not walk, but 
													crawled along. 
													
													
													We had never seen her stand 
													erect. We learned from the 
													Chesterfield, SC Animal 
													Control that Lydia's family 
													had bred her so they could 
													sell her puppies. Lydia had 
													been kept on a very short 
													chain and the children in 
													her family would beat her 
													with a shovel, throw bottles 
													and cans at her, and cheer 
													when they would hit her in 
													the head. So we understood 
													her fear ... but teaching 
													her to trust was our job . |  
												
												
												
												Dogs do not understand the words 
												love. What they understand is 
												the feeling of respect and trust 
												grows from that. Respect and 
												trust together equals love in 
												any language ... especially 
												"Heart speak," the language of 
												dogs.
												We had hoped to at least teach 
												Lydia that she is and ever shall 
												be respected before she went to 
												our veterinarian. But Lydia had 
												a few problems that required 
												care and it could not be put off 
												any longer. Of course, we always 
												go through with a spay or neuter 
												while the dog is with the vet so 
												they do not have to leave us 
												again. So we drove Lydia to the 
												vet and went through our ritual 
												of getting her out of the car 
												and into the office. When she 
												could not make herself small 
												enough to fit under the car 
												seat, she just disappeared 
												somewhere inside herself, as we 
												had seen her do so many times 
												before. Again, this is one of 
												those experiences that will make 
												your heart hurt literally. | 
		 
		But. I understand a 
		wonderful lady named Karin Nikischer from a place called Ontario, Canada 
		was instrumental in helping them to find me. Isn't
		
		it amazing how 
		someone so far away can love me so much and reach out the way she did. 
		
		 And I 
		know that without this wonderful lady named Karin, the people who wanted so 
		to help me,  may not have ever found me !!!                 
		
		
				
				
				   
			
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				I am safe, and I thank 
				 you 
				so very much for caring about me... 
												 
				Thank you Karin... From 
				my heart to yours 
		
				
				
				 
				In the in heart speak language that I know you can hear, |  
		A very sedated Lydia after Beth & Jerry found her,waiting in the Van to finally !!! Go Home.....
 Beth McDuffie 
		 The whole story will be 
		published in my up coming book... 
												   
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													Several 
													things happened while Lydia 
													was with our vet. The 
													absolute worst news was that 
													Lydia had a tumour that ran 
													from her ribcage to the 
													"spay" area. It was expected 
													to be a mammary tumour, but 
													we could not be sure and it 
													had to be removed. Also, we 
													had to have the histology 
													report. I had written the 
													check that we always write 
													when we leave an animal with 
													our vet: $250. That covers 
													all basic vetting for 
													rescue, including 
													spay/neuter and a ten day 
													stay in the hospital or 
													boarding. I knew this would 
													be a bit more, but we never 
													have treated our rescues any 
													different than we treat our 
													own pack, so I swallowed 
													hard and told our vet to do 
													whatever was needed to make 
													Lydia whole. I had posted 
													Lydia's "story" on Face 
													Book, as I do with so many 
													of our rescues, telling the 
													story from the dog's 
													perspective. Now, I added 
													this bit of bad news and 
													prayed for donations. |  
											
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													It 
													was about this time that
													
													
													
													
													
													
													I got a private message 
													from a woman in Canada
													
													 
													
													
													
													that asked my 
													permission to work with 
													Lydia. The woman's name is 
													
													
													
													
												
													
													 Karin 
													Nikischer and 
													I was not too sure exactly  
													what 
													she planned to do or what it 
													would cost. But I knew if it 
													would help Lydia, then we 
													needed to try. I was a 
													little surprised when she 
													explained exactly what it is 
													she does and I actually had 
													some understanding since I 
													have a sister who has 
													explained Chakra (energy 
													centers) to me 
													before. But the huge 
													surprise was when she told 
													me that she needed to do 
													this for Lydia.
													
													   
													
														
															| I
															have never been 
															one to look a gift 
															horse in the mouth, 
															especially when it 
															is for one of our 
															rescues.
															I listened 
															for news from Karin 
															and actually was not 
															surprised when her 
															words concerning 
															Lydia were 
															prophetic.  
															
															
															The tumour 
															was benign, in fact, 
															and Lydia had a very 
															speedy recovery.   
															  
															
															For 
															a little dog who has 
															had her spirit 
															broken to the point 
															she knows how to 
															"disappear" inside 
															herself, this 
															recovery was 
															amazing. She was 
															soon ready to leave 
															the vet's office. We 
															had numerous 
															applications for 
															Lydia's adoption and 
															combed them all 
															carefully. I have 
															been accused of 
															being obsessive 
															compulsive when it 
															comes to placing 
															these wonderful 
															animals. But I know 
															they have suffered 
															enough and do not 
															intend to allow any 
															more suffering. I 
															could go on forever 
															about the adoption 
															process for Lydia 
															and how we had some 
															really dishonest 
															people attempting to 
															take her home with 
															them. 
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															| As it turned out, we 
															found a wonderful 
															couple. They had 
															experience with Pit 
															Bulls and experience 
															with fearful dogs 
															... a lot of 
															experience. Jerry 
															and I met them and 
															liked them 
															instantly. Lydia 
															also seemed to like 
															them. We left her in 
															their care on a 
															Friday evening, with 
															her actually eating 
															from her new "mom's" 
															hands. This was 
															something I had 
															never been able to 
															get her to do for 
															me, though she had 
															eaten treats from 
															Jerry's hands 
															before. I received a 
															call in the night 
															and could hear Lydia 
															snoring in time with 
															her new "dad." The 
															snoring is always a 
															sign that the animal 
															is relaxed and at 
															peace. For the first 
															time since I met 
															Lydia, I slept 
															soundly believing 
															she was at long last 
															going home where she 
															belonged. 
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														| 
														
														
														 I did not know that well 
														over a thousand miles 
														away a woman named 
														Karin Nikischer
														was restless 
														and concerned. I had no 
														way of knowing she was 
														not sleeping and, as I 
														would later learn, was 
														seeing  Lydia's face when 
														she tried to close her 
														eyes. 
															
																| Around 6 AM 
																Saturday morning 
																my phone rang 
																and woke me from 
																a very peaceful 
																sleep. I could 
																hear Lydia's new 
																"mom" on the 
																other end of the 
																phone but could 
																not make out 
																what she was 
																saying. It took 
																a moment for me 
																to realize she 
																was crying 
																uncontrollably. I finally 
																heard the words: 
																"WE LOST HER." 
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												| Lydia, at some point in the 
												healing process she experienced 
												over the past month while under 
												the vet's care and Karin's 
												constant presence in her life, 
												
												this scared little dog had 
												gained a bit of confidence. We have the pictures to prove when 
												her new mom and dad walked her 
												that morning before leaving for 
												a 12 hour trip, Lydia walked 
												upright and proud for the first 
												time ever. 
												I 
												have my suspicions as to what 
												had given her courage after the 
												events that unfolded over the 
												next three and one half weeks, 
												but Lydia showed no fear in the 
												pictures I 
												saw. |  
											
												| However, what 
												happened next stunned everyone, except 
												maybe the woman who had spent a 
												sleepless night in Canada. 
												 
												
However, what 
Lydia, as explained by her "new 
												mom" did not want to get into 
												the vehicle to leave. When she 
												and her husband lifted her to 
												put her in, this once scared 
												little girl took her paws, put 
												them behind her head and took 
												first a collar off, and then 
												removed a harness that I had 
												been sure would be secure for a 
												little dog that I had never seen 
												stand erect. It took only a few 
												seconds and she was darting away 
												- not crawling - but fully erect 
												with her tail in the air for the 
												first time ever. She found the 
												closest wooded area and ran in. 
												The woods happened to be behind 
												a mall in this town that was 
												about 40 minutes from my home. 
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												| That morning the search for 
												Lydia began.
												We had sightings, but fleeting 
												ones. We could see signs where 
												she had been ... tracks, the 
												place she had slept the night 
												before, the place she had gone 
												to the bathroom - our food was 
												disappearing. And on one 
												occasion we walked directly into 
												her. It shocked everyone so 
												badly our reaction was far too 
												slow. Lydia stopped, and I 
												believe at that moment she was 
												starting to come to me - someone 
												she knew - but there was a 
												stranger beside me and as 
												quickly as she had stopped in 
												her tracks, she turned heel and 
												ran back into the woods. We knew 
												there was an underground 
												drainage system in the area and 
												that Lydia was using this 
												system, but had no clue where to 
												look. 
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												| Then I heard from Karin, we talked for hours on that 
												first night. 
												She told me 
												things that she could not 
												possibly have known, and yet she 
												did. She described the area 
												where Lydia was to me and I sat 
												open-mouthed. She sent me a map 
												to follow and told me she would 
												help me to find our scared 
												little girl. She also told me 
												that Lydia would be coming home 
												to me. She said it would not be 
												the first week and we would need 
												to be patient. 
 Oh my, Patience is not my strong 
												point, but I listened since
												
												
												
												
												I absolutely trusted what 
												Karin was saying. She had been 
												right on far too many things for 
												me to ignore this.  
												We purchased a trap for $300 and 
												set it up for Lydia where Karin 
												told us to. Animal Control, 
												shocked that a woman was calling 
												them from Ontario about a dog 
												also took notice and placed a 
												trap where she told them to. Night after long night I would 
												sit and wait for Lydia to enter 
												our traps. Some nights I had 
												company - another of our rescue 
												members - but since she has 
												children, I would also go alone. 
												I slept in a sleeping bag, 
												hiding my van because I knew 
												vehicles frightened Lydia. I 
												would have to return home during 
												the day to handle my part of the 
												Rescue. Dogs were not getting 
												transported and commitments were 
												being put on hold. We were 
												covering boarding fees for some 
												animals because
												 
												 
												we had to 
												find Lydia. 
												During the day, animal control 
												and the police department would 
												stay near the area and try to 
												keep strangers away. They 
												had been told Lydia was 
												terrified of people she did not 
												know.
 
 
													
														| Now ... the most 
														frustrating part 
														through all of these 
														long nights was I could 
														not talk to Karin on the 
														phone.
														Karin was using 
														something called Map 
														Dowsing to locate Lydia 
														and I needed to know 
														what she 
														
														 was 
														seeing.
														
														
														But the MS prevents me 
														from being able to feel 
														the phone on vibrate, 
														and because of my 
														diminished hearing, the 
														phone has to be loud for 
														me to hear it.  
														
														
														The sound of the phone 
														would frighten Lydia 
														away and we could not 
														text between North 
														Caroline, USA and 
														Ontario, Canada. So 
														Karin and I would talk 
														before I would leave and 
														I would travel with my 
														map she had sent. A good 
														friend and another 
														member of our rescue 
														named "Kat" would talk 
														to Karin on the phone 
														and send me the text 
														message. 
														
														
														 
														It was not the perfect 
														plan, but it was what we 
														had to work with. 
														
														 
														And 
														there were times it was 
														very frustrating - 
														especially on the day I 
														realized I was reading 
														the map wrong. 
 Then I got an idea I 
														should have had in the 
														beginning. I remembered 
														one of the maps you can 
														pull up online will 
														actually give you a 
														satellite view of the 
														area.
														
														
														
														
														So 
														after about a week of 
														total frustration with 
														Karin threatening to get 
														in her vehicle and drive 
														to Lydia (and I have no 
														doubt she would have 
														done it), I sent her a 
														link that would shock 
														even her I believe.
 
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												| Now I had been shocked the week 
												before when this woman, who 
												could not possibly know the area 
												since it was over a thousand 
												miles away, had given me a very 
												detailed description of the area 
												where Lydia was. And I had been 
												shocked when we had a tracker 
												come to try and help locate 
												Lydia. Karin had told me that 
												Lydia was staying in a five mile 
												radius. Our tracker had a small 
												hand-held device that would 
												measure the distance we walked. 
												As he tracked and we walked the 
												area where she was suspected to 
												be, we finally had come full 
												circle. We looked at his device 
												and saw we had been exactly 4.98 
												miles. I sighed and smiled. It 
												is not easy to realize the 
												distance involved in a radius 
												for me. But seeing it there on 
												the machine made Karin's work 
												all the more real for me. I 
												think the largest shock was when 
												she described a structure that 
												is not listed on any map and 
												something I still have not told 
												her about. She will learn of it 
												for the first time when she 
												reads this. 
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												| 
												
												
												This area used to be all 
												farmland. In the last few years, 
												the state has made it a tree 
												farm. But about a mile down the 
												road from the edge of our five 
												mile radius where Lydia was lost 
												is this open field with a very 
												small horse stable in the middle 
												of it. I had lived in this area 
												for over 20 years before moving 
												to our present home and Jerry 
												had lived in the area his entire 
												life, but neither of us were 
												aware of the stable. I have no 
												idea how long it has been there. 
												It becomes important to this 
												story for one reason. At the end 
												of the first week, on the second 
												Saturday when I left for the 
												search and planned to stay all 
												day and night if need be, about 
												midway through the afternoon 
												there was a very large commotion 
												"down the road" from the area. 
												There were police cars and 
												ambulances. I knew immediately 
												the noise would push Lydia into 
												hiding.  
												
 I 
												
												 called Karin to tell her that 
												I had come home for a bit and 
												she described a structure. She 
												was not making a lot of sense to 
												me at that time, but I tried 
												harder to understand what she 
												was talking about. I searched my 
												memory banks for a structure 
												like the one she was describing 
												and I attempted to tell her that 
												what she was saying was 
												absolutely not there, since the 
												area she was talking about, I 
												THOUGHT was all office buildings 
												and tree farm. The tree farm 
												begins just on the other side of 
												the office buildings, but I had 
												not even told her about the tree 
												farm, yet she was telling me 
												about it. Finally, I told her I 
												would look for the structure. 
												She told me not to worry about 
												that because Lydia was not 
												there, but there was something 
												about that structure so maybe I 
												should look for it because it 
												could be that Lydia was finding 
												it at times and using it as 
												shelter. I could tell Karin was 
												not overly concerned with the 
												structure, but it had plagued 
												her at some point or she would 
												not have told me about it.
 
 The next day I knew exactly what 
												she was talking about.
												
												
												I bought 
												a local newspaper and was 
												shocked to see the road where I 
												was searching for Lydia named in 
												the paper. A bit down that road 
												from us, a woman had been 
												trampled to death by a horse the 
												day before ... 
												the noise and 
												sirens I had heard the day 
												before.
												
												
												
												
												
												I do not know if Lydia 
												had been to the area and seen 
												it,  
												 
												or if Karin was just so 
												focused in on that area that she 
												picked up on it. When I talked 
												to Karin I started to tell her, 
												but all I managed to get out was 
												that I had found the structure 
												she was talking about. Karin 
												told me not to worry about that, 
												and began telling me what I 
												needed to do for the night. She 
												would tell me where to leave 
												food for Lydia and how to use 
												Rescue Remedy to help this 
												scared little dog who needed to 
												come home.
 
 When I managed to recall the 
												Bird's Eye view and sent the 
												link to Karin, she began telling 
												me where Lydia was immediately. 
												And I will never forget what I 
												said:
 
 "OH KARIN, NO. I THINK YOU ARE 
												READING THAT WRONG BECAUSE THAT 
												IS ACROSS THE ROAD."
 
 When she could not get through 
												to me, and when I was almost so 
												tired I would have missed Lydia 
												had I seen her most likely, 
												Karin spoke to my husband.
												At 
												that point I was
												
												
												discouraged 
												because there had not been a sighting for several 
												days. I was concerned. 
												NO,  
												to be totally 
												honest, I was scared.   
												  
												
												  
												  
												After 
												Jerry talked to Karin he road 
												with me to the area where I had 
												spent so many long nights.
												
												
												There were several 
												mornings when I needed to leave 
												that I had to stay a little 
												longer 
												because the MS was acting up and 
												I could not do anything but lie 
												very still until the spasms 
												stopped. But determination and 
												love are very strong motivators.
												
												
												I
												am sure Karin can speak to that 
												because I have no doubt 
												whatsoever that she fell totally 
												in love with this little dog 
												that she saw night after lonely 
												night. And Lydia was lonely.
 
 She would not enter our traps 
												because she had seen cats get 
												trapped in them. To make matters 
												worse, strangers had been 
												arriving during the hours we 
												were changing clothes and 
												eating. And now there had not 
												been a sighting in a few days. 
												So I was very afraid.
												
												
												But 
												Karin 
												spoke to Jerry and we drove 
												together to the place Karin had 
												told him to go.
												 
												 
												
												It was a 
												street called Trinity Drive and 
												it was across the road from the 
												original area. Right at the edge 
												of Trinity Drive, even though 
												this is a housing development, 
												there was a small stretch of 
												woods. At one end was a house 
												facing the main road. And almost 
												behind that house was an empty 
												house with a fenced in back 
												yard. The family had only 
												recently moved out. I got out of 
												the
												van and 
												walked behind the house and 
												there, in the fresh mud (it had 
												rained the night before) were a 
												dog's paw prints. They looked to 
												be the size of Lydia's and 
												this area has a leash 
												law. 
												So it had to 
												be a stray making the prints 
												... 
												or a very scared, lonely 
												and hungry little Pit Bull named 
												Lydia.
 
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												| I was 
												excited. I heard a bell tinkle 
												and saw a white cat dart past 
												me. As the cat ran for her home, 
												the house that was facing the 
												main road, a woman came out the 
												back door. I asked her if she 
												had seen a dog in the area that 
												she did not know, she told me 
												she had, and that she had seen 
												our posters and planned to call 
												me. 
												"She had seen Lydia that day". 
 I talked to her a little longer. 
												She told me if she saw her 
												again, and if Lydia would go 
												inside the fence that belonged 
												to the now empty house, she 
												would close the gate and call 
												me. It had been a little over 
												three weeks but seemed more like three years. I went to the van 
												and told Jerry. We decided to 
												set the crate that Lydia knew 
												and that had our scent on it 
												inside that fence where we 
												wanted Lydia to go. I put a bowl 
												of food and water in the crate 
												and laced the food with some 
												Rescue Remedy. The next day we 
												returned to find the food was 
												not eaten and my heart sank to a 
												new depth.
 
 But we replaced the food and 
												water with fresh and left. The 
												next afternoon I received a call 
												from the neighbour. She told me 
												the dog she had seen in the 
												neighbourhood had entered the 
												fence next door and she had 
												closed it. She also said she had 
												gotten a good look at the dog 
												and she looked like Lydia.
 
 She was 
												in that fence and I was 
												determined to at least get a 
												picture of her for all of her 
												friends on Face Book.
												  
												 
												 
												
												I am not sure how fast we drove 
												to get there, but I am sure had 
												a police officer been anywhere 
												within range of us we would have 
												gotten a ticket. We arrived at 
												the vacant house and I ran to 
												the backyard and the fenced in 
												area. Jerry was beside me and I 
												honestly believed we both moved 
												faster than we thought we were 
												capable. We went inside the 
												fence and closed the gate behind 
												us. No mistakes at this point. 
												We started in the same corner of 
												the yard and walked in separate 
												directions looking for the 
												little girl who had stolen our 
												hearts and then ran off with 
												them. Neither of us saw her 
												anywhere. I walked toward the 
												crate that was sitting near the 
												deck of the house. Jerry began 
												to walk in that direction too 
												and I believe I already knew. I 
												took my camera from my pocket 
												and turned it on.
 
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												I 
												peered into the crate and there 
												was Lydia!!! The Rescue Remedy 
												had made her very sleepy and she 
												actually appeared drunk. 
												 
												 
												
												
												I 
												smiled as I posted the picture 
												that night and wrote in the note 
												that "YES WE HAD DRUGGED HER 
												FOOD". There was no denying the 
												very sleepy girl in that crate 
												was our" Lydia".
 
 There have been a lot of details 
												to work out and a lot of 
												budgeting after so much money 
												spent during that 3 and 1/2 
												weeks. I was not online often 
												enough to ask for help and 
												donations and they do not seem 
												to come in unless I ask for 
												help. So we cleaned our checking 
												accounts out - both the personal 
												and the rescue ...  
												
												
												but 
												Lydia is home. Or she is almost 
												home. On the day when Lydia can 
												walk past a human being and not 
												think they may do her harm; on 
												the day when a human hand can 
												touch her and she does not 
												cringe a little; on the day when 
												the wonderful memories make 
												those horrible years of abuse 
												fade into the background ... 
												then Lydia will be home -
 
 THANKS TO A WOMAN THAT LIVES 
												OVER 1000 MILES AWAY IN 
												OTTAWA, ONTARIO, CANADA,
 Karin, I can never tell you 
												exactly what your actions and 
												the time, heart and love you put 
												into this mean to me.
 
 NEVER in all the times I spoke 
												with Karin did she mention 
												payment. Instead, even though I 
												know the time it took to do what 
												she did both 
												
												
												
												 day and night, she 
												donated to our rescue so we 
												could keep looking for Lydia.
 
												
												She also asked others to" put 
												their money where their mouths" 
												were and do the same. 
												
												 
												
												She would 
												call when she was concerned send 
												a new map by email,and kept 
												sending distant healing to keep 
												Lydia's energy level in balance. 
												She never gave up.
 
 Because of this, Lydia is safe 
												today. And Lydia is as much 
												Karin's dog as she is ours.
 
												
												
												I 
												know Lydia will forever be in 
												Karin's heart - 
												 
												
												and Karin lives 
												there in Lydia's as well... 
													
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														Rescue is in the 
														trenches, where honesty 
														lives... 
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												~Beth McDuffie~ 
														
														
														~Eagle's Den Animal Haven & 
												Rescue, Inc~
 eaglesdenrescue@live.com
 
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														Not in the minds of men, where 
												opinions lie. 
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