HEARTHS & FRIENDS ACROSS THE MILES
FROM OTTAWA
ONTARIO, CANADA -TO
NORTH CAROLINA, USA
Where is Lydia the Pit
Bull....
Remember "Lydia", the
scared girl saved by Eagle's Den Rescue
and adopted? Lydia
escaped her Harness & Her new parents
desperately need to find her.
My
name is Beth McDuffie. Jerry, my
husband and I
have worked in animal rescue for as
long as I can remember! |
From the start,
Jerry and I opted to rescue
those animals that other rescues
would or could not take. We shy
away from the cute little
puppies that rescues then to
fight over and frequently have
several seniors lounging in our
home. We also see our fair share
of Pit Bulls. The most common
Pit Bulls to grace our homes
are known as
Bait Dogs. They come to us
maimed and scarred and we do our
best to help them heal.
When Lydia came to us
she won our hearts
immediately. She had
been horribly abused by
the family that was
supposed to love her.
She had been taken from
this family by animal
control because of
cruelty. Lydia was from
Chesterfield, SC, a
place where dog fighting
is as common as having
dinner every day. The
fact animal control
confiscated her speaks
volumes. And Lydia was
truly terrified. When
she came to us, she had
been in a rescue in SC
for a little over a
week. She was not coming
around and they needed
the space, so they
called us. Of course we
could not turn her away.
From the start we knew Lydia
would be special. For one
thing, when she was
transported to us, it took
us 30 minutes to get her out
of the crate she had been
transported in. We finally
had to disassemble the crate
from around her for fear of
hurting this small to medium
sized Pit Bull. Her eyes
were wide with fear and she
would try to "disappear." It
is difficult to understand a
dog doing this until you see
it. The effect is not heart
breaking. It is heart
wrenching. When human hands
touched Lydia, she would use
the bathroom on herself
uncontrollably. We gradually
got her to at least move
while on a leash, but the
effects of that also broke
our hearts.
Lydia did not walk, but
crawled along.
We had never seen her stand
erect. We learned from the
Chesterfield, SC Animal
Control that Lydia's family
had bred her so they could
sell her puppies. Lydia had
been kept on a very short
chain and the children in
her family would beat her
with a shovel, throw bottles
and cans at her, and cheer
when they would hit her in
the head. So we understood
her fear ... but teaching
her to trust was our job .
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Dogs do not understand the words
love. What they understand is
the feeling of respect and trust
grows from that. Respect and
trust together equals love in
any language ... especially
"Heart speak," the language of
dogs.
We had hoped to at least teach
Lydia that she is and ever shall
be respected before she went to
our veterinarian. But Lydia had
a few problems that required
care and it could not be put off
any longer. Of course, we always
go through with a spay or neuter
while the dog is with the vet so
they do not have to leave us
again. So we drove Lydia to the
vet and went through our ritual
of getting her out of the car
and into the office. When she
could not make herself small
enough to fit under the car
seat, she just disappeared
somewhere inside herself, as we
had seen her do so many times
before. Again, this is one of
those experiences that will make
your heart hurt literally. |
But. I understand a
wonderful lady named Karin Nikischer from a place called Ontario, Canada
was instrumental in helping them to find me. Isn't
it amazing how
someone so far away can love me so much and reach out the way she did.
And I
know that without this wonderful lady named Karin, the people who wanted so
to help me, may not have ever found me !!!
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I am safe, and I thank
you
so very much for caring about me...
Thank you Karin... From
my heart to yours
In the in heart speak language that I know you can hear, |
A very sedated Lydia after Beth & Jerry found her,
waiting in the Van to finally !!! Go Home.....
Beth McDuffie
The whole story will be
published in my up coming book...
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Several
things happened while Lydia
was with our vet. The
absolute worst news was that
Lydia had a tumour that ran
from her ribcage to the
"spay" area. It was expected
to be a mammary tumour, but
we could not be sure and it
had to be removed. Also, we
had to have the histology
report. I had written the
check that we always write
when we leave an animal with
our vet: $250. That covers
all basic vetting for
rescue, including
spay/neuter and a ten day
stay in the hospital or
boarding. I knew this would
be a bit more, but we never
have treated our rescues any
different than we treat our
own pack, so I swallowed
hard and told our vet to do
whatever was needed to make
Lydia whole. I had posted
Lydia's "story" on Face
Book, as I do with so many
of our rescues, telling the
story from the dog's
perspective. Now, I added
this bit of bad news and
prayed for donations.
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It
was about this time that
I got a private message
from a woman in Canada
that asked my
permission to work with
Lydia. The woman's name is
Karin
Nikischer and
I was not too sure exactly
what
she planned to do or what it
would cost. But I knew if it
would help Lydia, then we
needed to try. I was a
little surprised when she
explained exactly what it is
she does and I actually had
some understanding since I
have a sister who has
explained Chakra (energy
centers) to me
before. But the huge
surprise was when she told
me that she needed to do
this for Lydia.
I
have never been
one to look a gift
horse in the mouth,
especially when it
is for one of our
rescues.
I listened
for news from Karin
and actually was not
surprised when her
words concerning
Lydia were
prophetic.
The tumour
was benign, in fact,
and Lydia had a very
speedy recovery.
For
a little dog who has
had her spirit
broken to the point
she knows how to
"disappear" inside
herself, this
recovery was
amazing. She was
soon ready to leave
the vet's office. We
had numerous
applications for
Lydia's adoption and
combed them all
carefully. I have
been accused of
being obsessive
compulsive when it
comes to placing
these wonderful
animals. But I know
they have suffered
enough and do not
intend to allow any
more suffering. I
could go on forever
about the adoption
process for Lydia
and how we had some
really dishonest
people attempting to
take her home with
them.
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As it turned out, we
found a wonderful
couple. They had
experience with Pit
Bulls and experience
with fearful dogs
... a lot of
experience. Jerry
and I met them and
liked them
instantly. Lydia
also seemed to like
them. We left her in
their care on a
Friday evening, with
her actually eating
from her new "mom's"
hands. This was
something I had
never been able to
get her to do for
me, though she had
eaten treats from
Jerry's hands
before. I received a
call in the night
and could hear Lydia
snoring in time with
her new "dad." The
snoring is always a
sign that the animal
is relaxed and at
peace. For the first
time since I met
Lydia, I slept
soundly believing
she was at long last
going home where she
belonged.
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I did not know that well
over a thousand miles
away a woman named
Karin Nikischer
was restless
and concerned. I had no
way of knowing she was
not sleeping and, as I
would later learn, was
seeing Lydia's face when
she tried to close her
eyes.
Around 6 AM
Saturday morning
my phone rang
and woke me from
a very peaceful
sleep. I could
hear Lydia's new
"mom" on the
other end of the
phone but could
not make out
what she was
saying. It took
a moment for me
to realize she
was crying
uncontrollably. I finally
heard the words:
"WE LOST HER."
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Lydia, at some point in the
healing process she experienced
over the past month while under
the vet's care and Karin's
constant presence in her life,
this scared little dog had
gained a bit of confidence. We have the pictures to prove when
her new mom and dad walked her
that morning before leaving for
a 12 hour trip, Lydia walked
upright and proud for the first
time ever.
I
have my suspicions as to what
had given her courage after the
events that unfolded over the
next three and one half weeks,
but Lydia showed no fear in the
pictures I
saw.
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However, what
happened next stunned everyone, except
maybe the woman who had spent a
sleepless night in Canada.
However, what
Lydia, as explained by her "new
mom" did not want to get into
the vehicle to leave. When she
and her husband lifted her to
put her in, this once scared
little girl took her paws, put
them behind her head and took
first a collar off, and then
removed a harness that I had
been sure would be secure for a
little dog that I had never seen
stand erect. It took only a few
seconds and she was darting away
- not crawling - but fully erect
with her tail in the air for the
first time ever. She found the
closest wooded area and ran in.
The woods happened to be behind
a mall in this town that was
about 40 minutes from my home.
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That morning the search for
Lydia began.
We had sightings, but fleeting
ones. We could see signs where
she had been ... tracks, the
place she had slept the night
before, the place she had gone
to the bathroom - our food was
disappearing. And on one
occasion we walked directly into
her. It shocked everyone so
badly our reaction was far too
slow. Lydia stopped, and I
believe at that moment she was
starting to come to me - someone
she knew - but there was a
stranger beside me and as
quickly as she had stopped in
her tracks, she turned heel and
ran back into the woods. We knew
there was an underground
drainage system in the area and
that Lydia was using this
system, but had no clue where to
look.
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Then I heard from Karin, we talked for hours on that
first night.
She told me
things that she could not
possibly have known, and yet she
did. She described the area
where Lydia was to me and I sat
open-mouthed. She sent me a map
to follow and told me she would
help me to find our scared
little girl. She also told me
that Lydia would be coming home
to me. She said it would not be
the first week and we would need
to be patient.
Oh my, Patience is not my strong
point, but I listened since
I absolutely trusted what
Karin was saying. She had been
right on far too many things for
me to ignore this.
We purchased a trap for $300 and
set it up for Lydia where Karin
told us to. Animal Control,
shocked that a woman was calling
them from Ontario about a dog
also took notice and placed a
trap where she told them to. Night after long night I would
sit and wait for Lydia to enter
our traps. Some nights I had
company - another of our rescue
members - but since she has
children, I would also go alone.
I slept in a sleeping bag,
hiding my van because I knew
vehicles frightened Lydia. I
would have to return home during
the day to handle my part of the
Rescue. Dogs were not getting
transported and commitments were
being put on hold. We were
covering boarding fees for some
animals because
we had to
find Lydia.
During the day, animal control
and the police department would
stay near the area and try to
keep strangers away. They
had been told Lydia was
terrified of people she did not
know.
Now ... the most
frustrating part
through all of these
long nights was I could
not talk to Karin on the
phone.
Karin was using
something called Map
Dowsing to locate Lydia
and I needed to know
what she
was
seeing.
But the MS prevents me
from being able to feel
the phone on vibrate,
and because of my
diminished hearing, the
phone has to be loud for
me to hear it.
The sound of the phone
would frighten Lydia
away and we could not
text between North
Caroline, USA and
Ontario, Canada. So
Karin and I would talk
before I would leave and
I would travel with my
map she had sent. A good
friend and another
member of our rescue
named "Kat" would talk
to Karin on the phone
and send me the text
message.
It was not the perfect
plan, but it was what we
had to work with.
And
there were times it was
very frustrating -
especially on the day I
realized I was reading
the map wrong.
Then I got an idea I
should have had in the
beginning. I remembered
one of the maps you can
pull up online will
actually give you a
satellite view of the
area.
So
after about a week of
total frustration with
Karin threatening to get
in her vehicle and drive
to Lydia (and I have no
doubt she would have
done it), I sent her a
link that would shock
even her I believe.
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Now I had been shocked the week
before when this woman, who
could not possibly know the area
since it was over a thousand
miles away, had given me a very
detailed description of the area
where Lydia was. And I had been
shocked when we had a tracker
come to try and help locate
Lydia. Karin had told me that
Lydia was staying in a five mile
radius. Our tracker had a small
hand-held device that would
measure the distance we walked.
As he tracked and we walked the
area where she was suspected to
be, we finally had come full
circle. We looked at his device
and saw we had been exactly 4.98
miles. I sighed and smiled. It
is not easy to realize the
distance involved in a radius
for me. But seeing it there on
the machine made Karin's work
all the more real for me. I
think the largest shock was when
she described a structure that
is not listed on any map and
something I still have not told
her about. She will learn of it
for the first time when she
reads this.
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This area used to be all
farmland. In the last few years,
the state has made it a tree
farm. But about a mile down the
road from the edge of our five
mile radius where Lydia was lost
is this open field with a very
small horse stable in the middle
of it. I had lived in this area
for over 20 years before moving
to our present home and Jerry
had lived in the area his entire
life, but neither of us were
aware of the stable. I have no
idea how long it has been there.
It becomes important to this
story for one reason. At the end
of the first week, on the second
Saturday when I left for the
search and planned to stay all
day and night if need be, about
midway through the afternoon
there was a very large commotion
"down the road" from the area.
There were police cars and
ambulances. I knew immediately
the noise would push Lydia into
hiding.
I
called Karin to tell her that
I had come home for a bit and
she described a structure. She
was not making a lot of sense to
me at that time, but I tried
harder to understand what she
was talking about. I searched my
memory banks for a structure
like the one she was describing
and I attempted to tell her that
what she was saying was
absolutely not there, since the
area she was talking about, I
THOUGHT was all office buildings
and tree farm. The tree farm
begins just on the other side of
the office buildings, but I had
not even told her about the tree
farm, yet she was telling me
about it. Finally, I told her I
would look for the structure.
She told me not to worry about
that because Lydia was not
there, but there was something
about that structure so maybe I
should look for it because it
could be that Lydia was finding
it at times and using it as
shelter. I could tell Karin was
not overly concerned with the
structure, but it had plagued
her at some point or she would
not have told me about it.
The next day I knew exactly what
she was talking about.
I bought
a local newspaper and was
shocked to see the road where I
was searching for Lydia named in
the paper. A bit down that road
from us, a woman had been
trampled to death by a horse the
day before ...
the noise and
sirens I had heard the day
before.
I do not know if Lydia
had been to the area and seen
it,
or if Karin was just so
focused in on that area that she
picked up on it. When I talked
to Karin I started to tell her,
but all I managed to get out was
that I had found the structure
she was talking about. Karin
told me not to worry about that,
and began telling me what I
needed to do for the night. She
would tell me where to leave
food for Lydia and how to use
Rescue Remedy to help this
scared little dog who needed to
come home.
When I managed to recall the
Bird's Eye view and sent the
link to Karin, she began telling
me where Lydia was immediately.
And I will never forget what I
said:
"OH KARIN, NO. I THINK YOU ARE
READING THAT WRONG BECAUSE THAT
IS ACROSS THE ROAD."
When she could not get through
to me, and when I was almost so
tired I would have missed Lydia
had I seen her most likely,
Karin spoke to my husband.
At
that point I was
discouraged
because there had not been a sighting for several
days. I was concerned.
NO,
to be totally
honest, I was scared.
After
Jerry talked to Karin he road
with me to the area where I had
spent so many long nights.
There were several
mornings when I needed to leave
that I had to stay a little
longer
because the MS was acting up and
I could not do anything but lie
very still until the spasms
stopped. But determination and
love are very strong motivators.
I
am sure Karin can speak to that
because I have no doubt
whatsoever that she fell totally
in love with this little dog
that she saw night after lonely
night. And Lydia was lonely.
She would not enter our traps
because she had seen cats get
trapped in them. To make matters
worse, strangers had been
arriving during the hours we
were changing clothes and
eating. And now there had not
been a sighting in a few days.
So I was very afraid.
But
Karin
spoke to Jerry and we drove
together to the place Karin had
told him to go.
It was a
street called Trinity Drive and
it was across the road from the
original area. Right at the edge
of Trinity Drive, even though
this is a housing development,
there was a small stretch of
woods. At one end was a house
facing the main road. And almost
behind that house was an empty
house with a fenced in back
yard. The family had only
recently moved out. I got out of
the
van and
walked behind the house and
there, in the fresh mud (it had
rained the night before) were a
dog's paw prints. They looked to
be the size of Lydia's and
this area has a leash
law.
So it had to
be a stray making the prints
...
or a very scared, lonely
and hungry little Pit Bull named
Lydia.
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I was
excited. I heard a bell tinkle
and saw a white cat dart past
me. As the cat ran for her home,
the house that was facing the
main road, a woman came out the
back door. I asked her if she
had seen a dog in the area that
she did not know, she told me
she had, and that she had seen
our posters and planned to call
me.
"She had seen Lydia that day".
I talked to her a little longer.
She told me if she saw her
again, and if Lydia would go
inside the fence that belonged
to the now empty house, she
would close the gate and call
me. It had been a little over
three weeks but seemed more like three years. I went to the van
and told Jerry. We decided to
set the crate that Lydia knew
and that had our scent on it
inside that fence where we
wanted Lydia to go. I put a bowl
of food and water in the crate
and laced the food with some
Rescue Remedy. The next day we
returned to find the food was
not eaten and my heart sank to a
new depth.
But we replaced the food and
water with fresh and left. The
next afternoon I received a call
from the neighbour. She told me
the dog she had seen in the
neighbourhood had entered the
fence next door and she had
closed it. She also said she had
gotten a good look at the dog
and she looked like Lydia.
She was
in that fence and I was
determined to at least get a
picture of her for all of her
friends on Face Book.
I am not sure how fast we drove
to get there, but I am sure had
a police officer been anywhere
within range of us we would have
gotten a ticket. We arrived at
the vacant house and I ran to
the backyard and the fenced in
area. Jerry was beside me and I
honestly believed we both moved
faster than we thought we were
capable. We went inside the
fence and closed the gate behind
us. No mistakes at this point.
We started in the same corner of
the yard and walked in separate
directions looking for the
little girl who had stolen our
hearts and then ran off with
them. Neither of us saw her
anywhere. I walked toward the
crate that was sitting near the
deck of the house. Jerry began
to walk in that direction too
and I believe I already knew. I
took my camera from my pocket
and turned it on.
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I
peered into the crate and there
was Lydia!!! The Rescue Remedy
had made her very sleepy and she
actually appeared drunk.
I
smiled as I posted the picture
that night and wrote in the note
that
"YES WE HAD DRUGGED HER
FOOD". There was no denying the
very sleepy girl in that crate
was our" Lydia".
There have been a lot of details
to work out and a lot of
budgeting after so much money
spent during that 3 and 1/2
weeks. I was not online often
enough to ask for help and
donations and they do not seem
to come in unless I ask for
help. So we cleaned our checking
accounts out - both the personal
and the rescue ...
but
Lydia is home. Or she is almost
home. On the day when Lydia can
walk past a human being and not
think they may do her harm; on
the day when a human hand can
touch her and she does not
cringe a little; on the day when
the wonderful memories make
those horrible years of abuse
fade into the background ...
then Lydia will be home -
THANKS TO A WOMAN THAT LIVES
OVER 1000 MILES AWAY IN
OTTAWA, ONTARIO, CANADA,
Karin, I can never tell you
exactly what your actions and
the time, heart and love you put
into this mean to me.
NEVER in all the times I spoke
with Karin did she mention
payment. Instead, even though I
know the time it took to do what
she did both
day and night, she
donated to our rescue so we
could keep looking for Lydia.
She also asked others to" put
their money where their mouths"
were and do the same.
She would
call when she was concerned send
a new map by email, and kept
sending distant healing to keep
Lydia's energy level in balance.
She never gave up.
Because of this, Lydia is safe
today. And Lydia is as much
Karin's dog as she is ours.
I
know Lydia will forever be in
Karin's heart -
and Karin lives
there in Lydia's as well...
Rescue is in the
trenches, where honesty
lives...
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~Beth McDuffie~
~Eagle's Den Animal Haven &
Rescue, Inc~
eaglesdenrescue@live.com
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Not in the minds of men, where
opinions lie.
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